What is Friendship Goals for all of you? To me, It changes from time to time and recently it occur to me that being honest and truthful to myself is always the best because I will never let myself down.

People change, memories don’t.

There are seasonal friends and friends that will be there for a lifetime, we just need to differentiate them.

What are seasonal friends?  I never knew this term until a friend mentioned it to me, He is indeed smart in his own ways but honestly, it makes a lot of sense to me. Which is why I’m sharing this out with anyone that’s reading this place. Haha.

Seasonal friends are friends that are there for a certain period, for example, primary, secondary or poly friends. (Not saying that everyone parts after the school terms is over) But those that used to be your friend in school, but after school is over, you parted your ways with them. They are seasonal friends

They are the friends that makes your school days better and we should all be thankful for them. But why did we not contact anymore? Probably, it’s because there’s no foundation or common interest in the friendship. I don’t know but there are probably a thousand reasons to that.

Of course, there are also friends that stay together even after school is over! These are friends, which you are more bonded with. Sadly, there’s a difference between true and fake friends, I used to have friends that only come to me when they need help. I got angry and told them off, I mean if you have a friend that treats you like an ATM and only find you when they need money; pretty sure, you’ll be pissed off as well.

I believe in treating people with good intentions and treat them the way you wanted to be treated back. Then only, you’ll see who is the real friends that will stick by your side. I’m well blessed in this area, I went through a few rough roads and I’ve let go some of my friends whom I used to be super close. But I’m happier with the bunch of friends I’m hanging out with now.

They are the friends where I know I can rely on, whom I feel safe with. Grateful.

I’m not a friend that is super easy to deal with because of my horrible temper and because I do the silliest thing ever, make the worst decisions in my life and acting all broken when things come crashing. Haha. I’m ridiculous. But trust me, I’ve changed for the better, or maybe changing for the better? Haha.

Well, just a small note for you: friendship is just like a relationship. It takes two parties to put in the effort if the other party stopped putting in the effort. It will be tiring and maybe it’s time to leave.

Well, I used to be super one-sided and totally don’t mind if I’m just the only one that put in effort or take the initiative in the whole friendship, until one day I realize that people don’t and will never appreciate it. And so, Yup, reality struck me and I learn how to stop pleasing others and start living for myself.

Honestly, I love it and I’m happier this way. Know your worth

Tata.